"We cannot pretend that reality is different from what it is"
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The phrasing does two jobs at once. First, it collapses the room for spin. “Reality” isn’t framed as a perspective or a narrative; it’s a stubborn object. Second, it implicates the speaker and the audience together. “We” spreads responsibility across the table, suggesting that denial isn’t just a leader’s vice but a collective agreement to look away when the truth is expensive. That’s a diplomat’s move: moral clarity without naming names, pressure without open accusation.
Context matters because Zinser’s career sat at the friction point between national interest and international constraint. As a Mexican diplomat and UN figure in the early 2000s, he operated in a world reshaped by post-9/11 security politics, U.S. power, and the costs of dissent for smaller states. In that environment, “pretend” can mean many things: pretending wars are clean, pretending sovereignty is intact, pretending institutions are neutral, pretending private backroom pressure isn’t the real negotiating text.
The intent, then, isn’t philosophical. It’s operational. He’s warning that policy built on denial doesn’t just fail ethically; it fails strategically, because reality eventually collects its debt - with interest.
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"We cannot pretend that reality is different from what it is." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-cannot-pretend-that-reality-is-different-from-122394/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










