"We cannot tear out a single page of our life, but we can throw the whole book in the fire"
About this Quote
As a novelist, Sand understands the seduction of narrative agency. We live by editing ourselves into coherence, pretending we can isolate the chapter that ruined the plot. Her subtext is that life doesn’t grant that kind of authorial privilege. You carry every scene forward, even the ones you’d pay to forget. When people talk about “starting over,” they often mean excising one mistake while keeping the rest of the self intact. Sand calls that bluff: the only true reset is catastrophic, and it doesn’t discriminate between what hurt you and what made you.
Context matters. Sand lived loudly for a 19th-century woman: scandalized Paris, wrote under a male pen name, pursued artistic and romantic autonomy, and absorbed the public’s appetite for punishing female transgression. The quote reads like a warning from someone who knows how quickly “reinvention” can turn into disappearance - socially, psychologically, creatively. It’s not romantic nihilism; it’s an admonition about the cost of trying to purify a life by force.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Mauprat (George Sand, 1837)
Evidence: Nous ne pouvons arracher une seule page de notre vie, mais nous pouvons jeter le livre au feu. (Chapter/section not labeled in the Wikisource HTML view (line ~1392 in the online text); exact page depends on edition). This line appears in George Sand’s novel *Mauprat* (originally published 1837). The widely-circulated English version (“We cannot tear out a single page of our life, but we can throw the whole book in the fire”) matches the sense of the French, though English wording varies by translator. In the public-domain English translation on Project Gutenberg, the sentence appears as: “We cannot tear out a single page of our lives; but we can throw the book into the fire.” (Same location in the dialogue, but that English text is a translation rather than the original.) Other candidates (1) A Light in the Darkness (Sara Simpson, 2007) compilation95.0% ... George Sand gave me the prompt and the strength that I needed to make this book happen. 'We cannot tear out a sin... |
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Sand, George. "We cannot tear out a single page of our life, but we can throw the whole book in the fire." FixQuotes. February 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-cannot-tear-out-a-single-page-of-our-life-but-84532/.
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"We cannot tear out a single page of our life, but we can throw the whole book in the fire." FixQuotes, 14 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-cannot-tear-out-a-single-page-of-our-life-but-84532/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







