"We can't plan life. All we can do is be available for it"
About this Quote
The pivot is “available.” It’s a word from calendars and relationships, not philosophy. Availability implies presence, yes, but also vulnerability: you might get interrupted, rerouted, undone. Planning is an attempt to keep the world from making demands; being available accepts that the world will, and that you’ll meet it without needing to be the author of every chapter. There’s a quiet spiritual charge here too - availability as surrender, not passivity. You still choose how to show up; you just stop insisting the future behave.
Coming from Hill, the subtext is personal as much as cultural. Her career has been mythologized through both brilliance and refusal: stepping away from industry scripts, rejecting the neat arc of perpetual output, letting mess and motherhood and meaning complicate the brand. The line reads like a counter-manifesto to hustle culture and celebrity expectation. It suggests that a life worth living isn’t one you optimize; it’s one you stay awake for.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hill, Lauryn. (2026, January 15). We can't plan life. All we can do is be available for it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-cant-plan-life-all-we-can-do-is-be-available-157913/
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Hill, Lauryn. "We can't plan life. All we can do is be available for it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-cant-plan-life-all-we-can-do-is-be-available-157913/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We can't plan life. All we can do is be available for it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-cant-plan-life-all-we-can-do-is-be-available-157913/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.












