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Love Quote by Angelina Jolie

"We come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"

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Jolie’s line sells romance with a hard-earned edge: love isn’t a scavenger hunt for an unblemished partner, it’s an upgrade in perception. The phrasing quietly flips the consumer logic of modern dating, where people are treated like products to be optimized, compared, and swapped. “Perfect person” is the fantasy marketplace. “Imperfect person perfectly” is the choice to stop shopping and start seeing.

The sentence works because it makes devotion sound active, almost like a skill you can practice. “Learning” is the tell. It reframes love from fate to craft, shifting responsibility back onto the lover: if intimacy is failing, maybe it’s not because your partner is wrong, but because your attention is untrained or your expectations are outsourced to rom-com scripts and highlight reels. The subtext is both tender and bracing: you don’t get to demand flawlessness and call it standards. You get to decide what you can hold with generosity.

Coming from Jolie, the message carries a particular cultural weight. She’s been cast for decades as an icon of allure and spectacle, then lived publicly through marriage, divorce, tabloid mythology, and humanitarian reinvention. That biography makes the quote read less like Hallmark and more like an attempt to rescue love from performance. It suggests a kind of mature romantic politics: intimacy as radical patience, not constant evaluation. Perfect vision, not perfect raw material.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jolie, Angelina. (2026, January 17). We come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-come-to-love-not-by-finding-the-perfect-person-28649/

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Jolie, Angelina. "We come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-come-to-love-not-by-finding-the-perfect-person-28649/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-come-to-love-not-by-finding-the-perfect-person-28649/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.

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Angelina Jolie

Angelina Jolie (born June 4, 1975) is a Actress from USA.

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