"We come. We go. And in between we try to understand"
About this Quote
The intent is bluntly democratic. No hero’s journey, no tidy arc, no promise that understanding is guaranteed. The rhythm does the heavy lifting: “We come. We go.” sounds like stage directions, the kind you can’t argue with. Then the sentence that matters stretches out - “And in between we try to understand” - swapping certainty for effort. “Try” is the tell. It admits failure, repetition, the way meaning arrives late or not at all, and still insists the attempt is what makes the middle worth inhabiting.
Subtext-wise, it’s a quiet rebuke to the modern cult of certainty. Steiger isn’t selling wisdom; he’s naming the condition actors know intimately: you step into roles, motives, histories, and you never fully own them. You approximate. You listen. You miss things. You try again tomorrow. That’s also the existential pitch of postwar American masculinity Steiger often embodied - toughness on the surface, anxious inquiry underneath.
Context matters: a 20th-century life bracketed by war, Cold War dread, and a film culture obsessed with psychology. The line lands because it refuses cosmic decoration and still manages to sound humane. It’s a simple epitaph for anyone who’s ever wanted the world to make sense and kept going anyway.
Quote Details
| Topic | Meaning of Life |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Steiger, Rod. (n.d.). We come. We go. And in between we try to understand. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-come-we-go-and-in-between-we-try-to-understand-58427/
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Steiger, Rod. "We come. We go. And in between we try to understand." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-come-we-go-and-in-between-we-try-to-understand-58427/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We come. We go. And in between we try to understand." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-come-we-go-and-in-between-we-try-to-understand-58427/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









