"We do not want the men of another color for our brothers-in-law, but we do want them for our brothers"
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That’s the subtext, and it’s why the rhetoric “works.” Washington is translating civil equality into a form that might be palatable to white gatekeepers who controlled jobs, schools, and public safety. The familial metaphor is strategic, not sentimental. “Brothers” is broad enough to imply civic fraternity and Christian fellowship; “brothers-in-law” is specific enough to concede the social taboo that white supremacy obsessed over. He’s bargaining for space: accept Black people in the nation’s moral and economic life, and you won’t have to renegotiate your private life.
Context matters: Washington, an educator and architect of industrial training, often practiced a politics of incremental gains and careful language (famously associated with the Atlanta Compromise). This quote captures that compromise in miniature. It’s both a plea and a containment strategy - expanding the circle of belonging while leaving the most intimate boundary intact. The tension is the point: progress offered in exchange for reassurance, dignity argued through the vocabulary of white fears.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Washington, Booker T. (2026, January 18). We do not want the men of another color for our brothers-in-law, but we do want them for our brothers. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-do-not-want-the-men-of-another-color-for-our-5144/
Chicago Style
Washington, Booker T. "We do not want the men of another color for our brothers-in-law, but we do want them for our brothers." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-do-not-want-the-men-of-another-color-for-our-5144/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We do not want the men of another color for our brothers-in-law, but we do want them for our brothers." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-do-not-want-the-men-of-another-color-for-our-5144/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.






