"We don't change what we are, we change what we think what we are"
About this Quote
As an educator (and, in Butterworth’s case, a prominent New Thought minister), he’s working in a context where language and belief are treated as instruments. The intent is practical: change the mental frame, and behavior follows without needing to wage war on the self. The subtext is both liberating and risky. Liberating, because it relocates agency from “fixing yourself” to interrogating the assumptions that define you: “I’m bad at this,” “I’m not lovable,” “I always screw up.” Risky, because it can slide into the idea that suffering is just a mindset problem, a move that can ignore material conditions and trauma.
Rhetorically, the quote works because it refuses melodrama. It doesn’t demand you become someone new; it asks you to stop mislabeling who you already are. That’s a quieter revolution: not self-erasure, but self-editing.
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Butterworth, Eric. (2026, January 16). We don't change what we are, we change what we think what we are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-dont-change-what-we-are-we-change-what-we-123357/
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Butterworth, Eric. "We don't change what we are, we change what we think what we are." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-dont-change-what-we-are-we-change-what-we-123357/.
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"We don't change what we are, we change what we think what we are." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-dont-change-what-we-are-we-change-what-we-123357/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








