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Creativity Quote by Lauryn Hill

"We don't want people to have expectations of us, but then we have expectations of everybody else"

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Hill’s line lands like a quiet indictment, the kind you feel in your chest before you can argue with it. The “we” is doing heavy lifting: it’s not a confession from a pedestal, it’s a group portrait of modern contradiction. We crave the freedom to be unfinished, inconsistent, “misunderstood” - especially under the glare of an audience. Yet we turn around and demand legibility from everyone else, as if other people owe us clean narratives and reliable behavior.

The intent is less moralizing than exposing the asymmetry. “We don’t want people to have expectations of us” is the plea for spaciousness: let me evolve, let me fail privately, let me be more than my last performance. Then comes the mirror: “but then we have expectations of everybody else.” The pivot is the sting. Hill spotlights how accountability can become a one-way street when ego, anxiety, or celebrity culture is involved.

Context matters because Hill is a musician whose public life has been crowded with projection: genius, savior, disappointment, difficult, late. Fans feel entitled to a version of her that matches their nostalgia; she pushes back against that ownership. But she also refuses to let listeners off the hook. If you want grace for your own complexities, you can’t keep stockpiling demands for other people to be simpler than you are.

It works because it’s not a slogan. It’s a social audit: the hypocrisy is common, the self-recognition unavoidable.

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Hill, Lauryn. (2026, January 15). We don't want people to have expectations of us, but then we have expectations of everybody else. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-dont-want-people-to-have-expectations-of-us-157914/

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Hill, Lauryn. "We don't want people to have expectations of us, but then we have expectations of everybody else." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-dont-want-people-to-have-expectations-of-us-157914/.

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"We don't want people to have expectations of us, but then we have expectations of everybody else." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-dont-want-people-to-have-expectations-of-us-157914/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Lauryn Hill (born May 26, 1975) is a Musician from USA.

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