"We don't want to miss anybody or slight anybody"
About this Quote
“Miss anybody” and “slight anybody” are doing different kinds of work. To “miss” suggests accident, a dropped email, a name that fell through the cracks. To “slight” suggests choice, a social hierarchy, the intentional snub. Pairing them lets the speaker cover both sins at once: the logistical and the political. It’s a line that tries to domesticate conflict by treating hurt feelings like scheduling errors, while still nodding to the reality that recognition is power.
The repeated “anybody” has a democratic ring, but it’s also vague enough to avoid naming the actual stakes. Who counts as “anybody” is often the whole fight: the overlooked contributor, the marginalized guest list, the partner who did invisible labor. In a writerly context, it reads like the anxious preface to credits, acknowledgments, invitations, or awards - those moments when community becomes a ledger and omission becomes a headline.
The subtext is the social fear behind all public lists: once you start naming, you start ranking. This line tries to thread that needle with humility, but it also signals that someone already suspects they’re about to be missed.
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| Topic | Respect |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Anderson, Bob. (2026, January 17). We don't want to miss anybody or slight anybody. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-dont-want-to-miss-anybody-or-slight-anybody-69891/
Chicago Style
Anderson, Bob. "We don't want to miss anybody or slight anybody." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-dont-want-to-miss-anybody-or-slight-anybody-69891/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We don't want to miss anybody or slight anybody." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-dont-want-to-miss-anybody-or-slight-anybody-69891/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





