"We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot"
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The subtext is practical and political. As First Lady, Roosevelt was constantly told what she “couldn’t” do: speak publicly, push civil rights, agitate for women’s independence, wade into labor disputes, travel as an emissary. She did it anyway, often without institutional permission. The phrasing “we must” reads less like self-help and more like civic duty: a democratic people can’t outsource bravery. If fear runs the show, the loudest demagogues and the safest traditions win by default.
Context matters because Roosevelt’s life sits on top of national trauma: the Depression, World War II, the early Cold War. Her argument is that crisis doesn’t magically create character; it reveals whether you’ve practiced it. “Do that which we think we cannot” is a challenge aimed at the private citizen and the public leader alike: the boundary of “cannot” is often just the edge of habit, and progress begins exactly there.
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Roosevelt, Eleanor. (2026, January 17). We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-gain-strength-and-courage-and-confidence-by-35174/
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Roosevelt, Eleanor. "We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-gain-strength-and-courage-and-confidence-by-35174/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-gain-strength-and-courage-and-confidence-by-35174/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.







