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Daily Inspiration Quote by Linda Lavin

"We give you this story. It is for the audience to be moved and gut wrenched, not us. It isn't as if we don't go through those real feeling and it isn't as if I don't cry three or four times a night. I usually do"

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There’s a small, telling defiance in Linda Lavin’s insistence on where the emotion “belongs.” She frames performance as an act of delivery, not indulgence: the job is to hand over the story so the audience gets wrecked by it, not to showcase the actor’s sensitivity like a badge. That’s a quietly radical stance in a culture that rewards public vulnerability and confessional authenticity. Lavin isn’t denying feeling; she’s policing its purpose.

The syntax does the heavy lifting. “It isn’t as if…” repeats like a rebuttal to an accusation she’s heard a thousand times: that professionalism equals coldness, that craft cancels out sincerity. She’s pushing back against the romantic myth that great acting is simply letting emotions spill. Instead, she argues for the harder truth: emotional access is necessary, but it’s not the point. The point is transfer. The actor is the conduit, not the container.

Then she undercuts any suspicion of stoicism with the blunt admission: “I don’t cry three or four times a night. I usually do.” It lands like a stage aside - plain, unpretty, almost funny in its matter-of-factness. The subtext is exhaustion and discipline at once: she can be devastated privately and still keep the work clean enough to serve the scene.

Context matters: Lavin comes out of a tradition where actors were expected to hit marks, protect continuity, repeat takes, and still generate something alive. Her quote is a reminder that restraint isn’t a lack of feeling; it’s the shape that makes feeling legible to others.

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Linda Lavin (born October 15, 1937) is a Actress from USA.

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