"We got the vote, which we should've been born with, in 1920. Everything we've had to struggle for - it's ridiculous"
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The subtext is generational impatience. Thomas, born the year women won the vote, frames the century since as an ongoing tax women keep paying: access to power metered out in grudging increments. "Everything we've had to struggle for" is a deliberately sweeping indictment, collapsing pay equity, reproductive autonomy, workplace credibility, and political representation into one exhausting category: things men are assumed to deserve. Her punchline - "it's ridiculous" - is deceptively casual, the newsroom equivalent of slamming a file on the desk. Ridiculous isn't just anger; it's contempt, the refusal to dignify structural inequality with the language of debate.
Context matters: Thomas built her career in the aggressively male ecosystem of Washington press corps, where legitimacy had to be re-earned daily. The line reads like a veteran's report from inside the machinery: rights don't trickle down, they get rationed, and even after 1920 the default setting of American democracy kept being "prove it."
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| Topic | Equality |
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Thomas, Helen. (2026, January 16). We got the vote, which we should've been born with, in 1920. Everything we've had to struggle for - it's ridiculous. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-got-the-vote-which-we-shouldve-been-born-with-82672/
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Thomas, Helen. "We got the vote, which we should've been born with, in 1920. Everything we've had to struggle for - it's ridiculous." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-got-the-vote-which-we-shouldve-been-born-with-82672/.
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"We got the vote, which we should've been born with, in 1920. Everything we've had to struggle for - it's ridiculous." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-got-the-vote-which-we-shouldve-been-born-with-82672/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





