"We had an eyeball-to-eyeball agreement at a restaurant before I came back that, if I came back, he would never talk to me that way again or I was simply saying no"
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The subtext is less romance than labor: this is a boundary conversation dressed as relationship drama, and “if I came back” reads like a resume clause, not a vow. She’s describing conditional access, turning her presence into leverage. That’s why the sentence keeps pivoting on “if.” It’s transactional, but not cold; it’s the language of someone who has learned that politeness is often interpreted as permission.
“Never talk to me that way again” also stays strategically vague. She doesn’t have to litigate every insult; she names the pattern. That choice shifts the burden: the offender has to manage himself, not argue semantics. And the blunt finish - “or I was simply saying no” - refuses melodrama. No ultimatums, no bargaining, just a binary. In an industry that thrives on blurred lines and plausible deniability, her phrasing is a way of making consent and respect legible: not a vibe, not a mood, a condition of continued contact.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mackris, Andrea. (2026, January 17). We had an eyeball-to-eyeball agreement at a restaurant before I came back that, if I came back, he would never talk to me that way again or I was simply saying no. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-had-an-eyeball-to-eyeball-agreement-at-a-42582/
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Mackris, Andrea. "We had an eyeball-to-eyeball agreement at a restaurant before I came back that, if I came back, he would never talk to me that way again or I was simply saying no." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-had-an-eyeball-to-eyeball-agreement-at-a-42582/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We had an eyeball-to-eyeball agreement at a restaurant before I came back that, if I came back, he would never talk to me that way again or I was simply saying no." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-had-an-eyeball-to-eyeball-agreement-at-a-42582/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








