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Creativity Quote by Paul Simon

"We had many more points of agreement than we had points of difference, but we did differ, and the bigger we got, the more insistent we got that each one of us should have his way"

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Harmony is easy in the cramped quarters of the early days; ego needs room to grow. Paul Simon’s line has the plainspoken sting of someone remembering how a partnership can be undone less by ideology than by scale. The setup is almost domestic: “many more points of agreement” implies shared taste, shared ambition, shared language. Then comes the turn - “but we did differ” - delivered without melodrama, as if the real drama isn’t the difference itself but what success does to it.

The key insight is in the architecture of the sentence: “the bigger we got” isn’t just fame as a number, it’s expansion of stakes. When a project is small, compromise feels like play; when it’s big, compromise feels like surrender. “More insistent” captures that creeping conversion of creative conviction into entitlement. Simon isn’t painting anyone as a villain. He’s describing a psychological upgrade that arrives with acclaim: you start believing your instincts aren’t just preferences, they’re the reason the whole machine works.

The gendered, era-specific “each one of us should have his way” quietly places this in a mid-century, male, competitive model of genius - two talents calibrated against each other, with little cultural vocabulary for shared authorship once the audience crowns you. In the Simon and Garfunkel context, it reads as an autopsy of a famous split where the tragedy wasn’t incompatibility; it was success hardening collaboration into a referendum on control.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Simon, Paul. (2026, January 15). We had many more points of agreement than we had points of difference, but we did differ, and the bigger we got, the more insistent we got that each one of us should have his way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-had-many-more-points-of-agreement-than-we-had-164390/

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Simon, Paul. "We had many more points of agreement than we had points of difference, but we did differ, and the bigger we got, the more insistent we got that each one of us should have his way." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-had-many-more-points-of-agreement-than-we-had-164390/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We had many more points of agreement than we had points of difference, but we did differ, and the bigger we got, the more insistent we got that each one of us should have his way." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-had-many-more-points-of-agreement-than-we-had-164390/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Paul Simon (born October 13, 1941) is a Musician from USA.

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