"We had such a wonderful set of circumstances in Wilmington. Yes, the four of us became famous literally overnight, but we were in a small town and we always knew when people were coming down. We always knew when to behave"
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The phrase “we always knew when to behave” is the tell. It’s not about morality; it’s about performance management. Holmes is admitting that public life teaches you to split yourself into versions: the self you are when the cameras aren’t around and the self you deploy when attention enters the room. In a small production bubble, celebrity becomes a scheduled shift, not a constant surveillance state. The subtext is almost quaint: fame with office hours.
It also reveals how early-2000s stardom differed from today’s always-on exposure. Before social media collapsed boundaries, you could still gate your persona with physical distance and community intel. “Behave” carries a faint note of institutional discipline, too: a young cast learning the unwritten rules of an industry that rewards compliance and punishes mess. Holmes isn’t romanticizing it so much as noting the rare luxury of seeing the spotlight coming and having time to brace.
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Holmes, Katie. (2026, January 15). We had such a wonderful set of circumstances in Wilmington. Yes, the four of us became famous literally overnight, but we were in a small town and we always knew when people were coming down. We always knew when to behave. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-had-such-a-wonderful-set-of-circumstances-in-146700/
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Holmes, Katie. "We had such a wonderful set of circumstances in Wilmington. Yes, the four of us became famous literally overnight, but we were in a small town and we always knew when people were coming down. We always knew when to behave." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-had-such-a-wonderful-set-of-circumstances-in-146700/.
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"We had such a wonderful set of circumstances in Wilmington. Yes, the four of us became famous literally overnight, but we were in a small town and we always knew when people were coming down. We always knew when to behave." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-had-such-a-wonderful-set-of-circumstances-in-146700/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.





