"We had the skirts with the slits up the side, sort of tough, sort of Spanish Harlem cool, but sweet too"
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The cultural charge sits in “Spanish Harlem cool.” Spector is naming a specific neighborhood swagger - streetwise, brown, working-class, loud with style - and claiming it as a source of pop glamour. That’s not just autobiography; it’s a rebuttal to the tidy, uptown version of 1960s femininity sold on TV. Those slits read as sexual confidence, but the “sweet too” is the strategic compromise: the permission slip that let mainstream audiences consume their sensuality without calling it threatening. It’s the same push-pull in the music: Phil Spector’s wall-of-sound grandeur surrounding a voice that still sounds like it’s leaning out a tenement window, daring you to look up.
Underneath, you can hear the business of being a girl in a machine built by men. The clothes signal agency - choosing “tough” - while also hinting at how narrowly women were allowed to be: provocative, but palatable; urban, but marketable. Spector turns that constraint into identity, and makes the contradiction the point.
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"We had the skirts with the slits up the side, sort of tough, sort of Spanish Harlem cool, but sweet too." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-had-the-skirts-with-the-slits-up-the-side-sort-159394/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.







