"We have a good arrangement. Roman lies to me and I pretend to believe him"
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The subtext is marital asymmetry. Roman Polanski, already cultivating a public aura of brilliance and appetite, is positioned as the one who acts and withholds; Tate becomes the one who absorbs and smooths over. The sentence compresses the emotional labor of keeping a relationship functional when honesty would force a reckoning. It’s also a portrait of celebrity intimacy: in public, you’re selling a story; in private, you’re negotiating which parts of the story can’t be said out loud. “Arrangement” sounds almost contractual, less romance than détente.
Context sharpens the ache. Tate was a young actress in a culture that rewarded women for being agreeable and “cool” about men’s indiscretions, especially powerful men. Read now, the line plays like an early articulation of a pattern we’ve since given harsher names: complicity as self-defense, denial as strategy. Its sting comes from how calmly it’s delivered, as if resignation has been polished into a coping style.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tate, Sharon. (2026, January 15). We have a good arrangement. Roman lies to me and I pretend to believe him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-have-a-good-arrangement-roman-lies-to-me-and-i-112878/
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Tate, Sharon. "We have a good arrangement. Roman lies to me and I pretend to believe him." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-have-a-good-arrangement-roman-lies-to-me-and-i-112878/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We have a good arrangement. Roman lies to me and I pretend to believe him." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-have-a-good-arrangement-roman-lies-to-me-and-i-112878/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





