"We have a good life when we manage to live with both satisfied and unsatisfied needs, when we are not obsessed by what is beyond our reach"
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The subtext pushes back against two modern compulsions at once: the consumer promise that every desire can be met if you just optimize hard enough, and the political temptation to treat every grievance as a mandate for immediate redress. By blessing “unsatisfied needs” as part of the deal, he’s validating limits without romanticizing deprivation. That’s a tricky rhetorical move: it reassures people who feel stretched, while also warning against the corrosive politics of permanent disappointment.
“Obsessed” is the pressure point. He’s not condemning ambition; he’s diagnosing fixation - the mental captivity of chasing what status, wealth, or even moral purity might deliver. In a Nordic political context shaped by strong welfare institutions and a cultural preference for moderation, the message lands as both personal counsel and civic instruction: stability depends on citizens who can distinguish between needs and infinite wants, and on leaders willing to admit that not everything can be promised, funded, or fixed.
It works because it doesn’t offer a feel-good slogan. It offers an ethic of restraint that doubles as a defense of realism.
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"We have a good life when we manage to live with both satisfied and unsatisfied needs, when we are not obsessed by what is beyond our reach." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-have-a-good-life-when-we-manage-to-live-with-32809/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.










