"We have all known the long loneliness, and we have found that the answer is community"
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The pivot is the word “answer.” Day isn’t offering community as a vague lifestyle preference or a sentimental fix. She means it as a solution with teeth: embodied, inconvenient, and moral. In the Catholic Worker world she helped build during the Depression and beyond, community meant houses of hospitality, feeding people, risking arrest, living alongside those society treats as background noise. The subtext is a critique of both capitalism’s lonely competition and liberalism’s habit of outsourcing care to institutions that can’t love you back.
Her “we” is doing the heavy lifting. It collapses the distance between server and served, activist and “the poor,” believer and skeptic. That refusal of hierarchy is the real provocation. Day suggests loneliness isn’t merely an emotion; it’s a sign of social failure. The “answer” isn’t self-improvement. It’s mutual obligation, the kind that costs time, comfort, and control.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
|---|---|
| Source | Dorothy Day, The Long Loneliness (autobiography), 1952 — line appears in Day's memoir usually cited as “We have all known the long loneliness, and we have found that the answer is community.” |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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