"We have to distrust each other. It is our only defense against betrayal"
About this Quote
The intent is less to advocate paranoia than to expose what his characters already know but hate admitting: they enter relationships with a weak hand and a desperate need. Williams wrote compulsively about people bargaining for tenderness in a world that treats neediness as prey. In that context, distrust becomes a kind of tragic competence. You learn to anticipate the knife so you can at least control where it lands.
The subtext is even harsher: if distrust is the only defense, then trust is a luxury the speaker can't afford - or a childish story they've outgrown. It's also an indictment of a social order that makes betrayal predictable. Williams' dramas are crowded with performances, masks, genteel lies, and erotic power games; suspicion isn't neurosis, it's literacy. The line stings because it frames connection as inherently transactional: you can want love, but you'd better bring armor, because the price of wanting is being exposed.
Quote Details
| Topic | Betrayal |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Williams, Tennessee. (2026, January 15). We have to distrust each other. It is our only defense against betrayal. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-have-to-distrust-each-other-it-is-our-only-10120/
Chicago Style
Williams, Tennessee. "We have to distrust each other. It is our only defense against betrayal." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-have-to-distrust-each-other-it-is-our-only-10120/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We have to distrust each other. It is our only defense against betrayal." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-have-to-distrust-each-other-it-is-our-only-10120/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











