"We have to set our own agenda, we have to set our own standards, we have to be very strong about what we want, we have to be very strong about our passion and if it's not right for you, you shouldn't do it just because you're advised by so-called geniuses"
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The pivot is “so-called geniuses,” a phrase that punctures the mythology of the infallible tastemaker. DeShannon doesn’t deny expertise; she questions the cult that forms around it, where advisors become priests and doubt becomes a virtue. The subtext is gendered and generational: for women in mid-century pop and rock, being “advised” often meant being managed, softened, redirected, or made marketable at the cost of authorship. Her insistence on being “very strong” reads like hard-won technique, not motivational poster grit. Strength here is not volume; it’s refusal.
Contextually, coming from a musician who navigated songwriting, performance, and shifting commercial trends, the quote carries the realism of someone who knows how easy it is to confuse access with alignment. The final clause - “if it’s not right for you, you shouldn’t do it” - rejects the romance of sacrifice. It argues that authenticity isn’t a vibe; it’s a boundary you enforce, especially when the most persuasive voices are paid to persuade you.
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DeShannon, Jackie. (2026, January 17). We have to set our own agenda, we have to set our own standards, we have to be very strong about what we want, we have to be very strong about our passion and if it's not right for you, you shouldn't do it just because you're advised by so-called geniuses. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-have-to-set-our-own-agenda-we-have-to-set-our-80034/
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DeShannon, Jackie. "We have to set our own agenda, we have to set our own standards, we have to be very strong about what we want, we have to be very strong about our passion and if it's not right for you, you shouldn't do it just because you're advised by so-called geniuses." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-have-to-set-our-own-agenda-we-have-to-set-our-80034/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We have to set our own agenda, we have to set our own standards, we have to be very strong about what we want, we have to be very strong about our passion and if it's not right for you, you shouldn't do it just because you're advised by so-called geniuses." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-have-to-set-our-own-agenda-we-have-to-set-our-80034/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.








