"We imagine that we want to escape our selfish and commonplace existence, but we cling desperately to our chains"
About this Quote
Sullivan's context matters. As Helen Keller's educator and advocate, she worked inside the paradox of liberation: you can open doors, teach language, offer tools, yet the will to step through is fought for, not granted. That experience sharpens the subtext: captivity is rarely imposed in a single dramatic moment. It's maintained through habits that feel like identity. Chains are not only external limits (poverty, disability, gender expectations), but internal bargains - the secondary gains of staying put: being right, being safe, being unchallenged.
The intent is bracingly practical. Sullivan isn't selling transcendence; she's warning that wishing is cheap and discomfort is the toll. The sentence turns on "but": the pivot from romantic self-story ("we imagine") to bodily behavior ("we cling"). It's a critique of performative longing - the kind that makes a life feel adventurous in the mind while keeping it unchanged in practice.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sullivan, Anne. (2026, January 15). We imagine that we want to escape our selfish and commonplace existence, but we cling desperately to our chains. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-imagine-that-we-want-to-escape-our-selfish-and-149567/
Chicago Style
Sullivan, Anne. "We imagine that we want to escape our selfish and commonplace existence, but we cling desperately to our chains." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-imagine-that-we-want-to-escape-our-selfish-and-149567/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We imagine that we want to escape our selfish and commonplace existence, but we cling desperately to our chains." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-imagine-that-we-want-to-escape-our-selfish-and-149567/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.








