"We know what a person thinks not when he tells us what he thinks, but by his actions"
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The intent isn’t just moral scolding. It’s a novelist’s method statement. Singer wrote out of worlds where identity was constantly narrated - by religion, by politics, by neighbors - and where survival often demanded masks. In that milieu, declarations are cheap currency; behavior is the hard evidence. His fiction is full of characters who talk themselves into virtue while arranging small betrayals, or who commit to ideals until desire, fear, or hunger intervenes. The sentence tightens that narrative insight into a rule: people are legible in the gap between their stated ethics and their lived choices.
Subtext: listen less to the story someone tells about themselves and more to the story their habits tell about them. It’s also a warning about our own inner monologues. We’re all talented PR managers for the self; we mistake intention for character. Singer punctures that vanity. Thought, he implies, isn’t a private sanctuary. It leaks, inevitably, into what you do when no one is applauding.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Singer, Isaac Bashevis. (2026, January 17). We know what a person thinks not when he tells us what he thinks, but by his actions. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-know-what-a-person-thinks-not-when-he-tells-us-61897/
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Singer, Isaac Bashevis. "We know what a person thinks not when he tells us what he thinks, but by his actions." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-know-what-a-person-thinks-not-when-he-tells-us-61897/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We know what a person thinks not when he tells us what he thinks, but by his actions." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-know-what-a-person-thinks-not-when-he-tells-us-61897/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.












