"We live in a world of things, and our only connection with them is that we know how to manipulate or to consume them"
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The subtext is moral but not preachy. Fromm isn’t scolding people for liking objects; he’s warning that a society organized around having will quietly erode the capacity for being. When the primary skills we’re rewarded for are extracting value and optimizing utility, everything else starts to look irrational: lingering, listening, repairing, honoring limits. Even relationships can slide into this logic - networking as consumption, intimacy as a kind of personal “use case.”
Context matters: Fromm is writing out of mid-century capitalism’s triumphal phase, with mass production, advertising, and Cold War technocracy remaking everyday life. As a psychoanalyst and humanist, he’s tracing how social structures shape inner life: alienation isn’t merely a feeling but a training regimen. The brilliance of the sentence is how it implicates us without letting us hide behind abstraction. If “only connection” is manipulation or consumption, then the crisis isn’t scarcity. It’s impoverished attention.
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Fromm, Erich. (2026, January 18). We live in a world of things, and our only connection with them is that we know how to manipulate or to consume them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-live-in-a-world-of-things-and-our-only-23544/
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Fromm, Erich. "We live in a world of things, and our only connection with them is that we know how to manipulate or to consume them." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-live-in-a-world-of-things-and-our-only-23544/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We live in a world of things, and our only connection with them is that we know how to manipulate or to consume them." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-live-in-a-world-of-things-and-our-only-23544/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.









