"We live in our fantasies and endure our realities"
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Wilson’s intent is less self-help than epistemological mischief. He’s pointing to how perception is edited before it ever reaches consciousness: we don’t simply experience events; we experience interpretations, and those interpretations quickly harden into private mythologies. The subtext is political as much as psychological. Fantasies aren’t just romantic plots and career glow-ups; they’re ideologies, paranoias, identity scripts, and consumer dreams, the narratives that make chaos feel legible. Endurance becomes a civic condition: you tolerate the unglamorous facts while living, emotionally, inside a more satisfying model of the world.
Written by a writer who spent a career needling certainties, the line warns that “reality” is often what remains after your preferred story stops working. The sting is that we might be protecting our fantasies not because they’re true, but because they’re livable.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wilson, Robert Anton. (2026, January 15). We live in our fantasies and endure our realities. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-live-in-our-fantasies-and-endure-our-realities-157104/
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Wilson, Robert Anton. "We live in our fantasies and endure our realities." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-live-in-our-fantasies-and-endure-our-realities-157104/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We live in our fantasies and endure our realities." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-live-in-our-fantasies-and-endure-our-realities-157104/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.







