"We love because it's the only true adventure"
About this Quote
The line works because it smuggles a hard truth into a clean, almost aphoristic shape: love is voluntary exposure. You can chase novelty without changing; you can travel, win, and perform courage. Love, by contrast, demands a different kind of bravery: being seen, being wrong, being softened, being accountable. "We love because" also rejects the sugary idea that love is purely irrational. There's a reason, even if it isn't tidy. It's a choice made in the face of fear and fatigue.
Context matters with Giovanni. As a Black poet emerging from the Black Arts Movement and writing through decades when Black intimacy was routinely politicized, threatened, and caricatured, positioning love as "true" carries weight. It asserts that tenderness and commitment aren't escapism; they're survival, creation, and resistance. Adventure here isn't glamour. It's the daily, radical act of building a life with someone else when the world keeps offering better alibis than possibilities.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Unverified source: The Women and the Men (Nikki Giovanni, 1975)
Evidence: Poem/prose piece: "Love: Is a Human Condition" (page number not confirmed from a paginated scan). The line “We love because it’s the only true adventure” appears as the closing sentence of a prose-poem titled “Love: Is a Human Condition,” which multiple secondary-but-textual reproductions attribu... Other candidates (2) One Month to Love (Kerry Shook, Chris Shook, 2012) compilation95.0% ... We love because it's the only true adventure . NIKKI GIOVANNI Day 11 e make sure that every Monday we go on a dat... Nikki Giovanni (Nikki Giovanni) compilation33.8% owe them because poetry really changed my life saved it lorna dee cervantes inte |
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