"We love in another's soul whatever of ourselves we can deposit in it; the greater the deposit, the greater the love"
About this Quote
The subtext is both tender and accusatory. Tender, because the act of depositing implies faith that the other person can hold something precious without breaking it. Accusatory, because it exposes a narcissistic bias: love can be less recognition than colonization. You’re moved by the parts of them that have been edited into compatibility with you. It’s a theory of intimacy as co-authorship, but also as a quiet takeover.
Context matters: Layton, a mid-century Canadian poet shaped by modernism’s hard edges and postwar skepticism, often favored blunt appetites over misty idealism. Here he’s puncturing the sentimental myth of pure, selfless love without dismissing love itself. He suggests what binds us isn’t mystery; it’s imprint. The line works because it makes the reader ask a bruising question: do I love you-or the version of me I’ve persuaded you to carry?
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Layton, Irving. (2026, January 16). We love in another's soul whatever of ourselves we can deposit in it; the greater the deposit, the greater the love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-love-in-anothers-soul-whatever-of-ourselves-we-110794/
Chicago Style
Layton, Irving. "We love in another's soul whatever of ourselves we can deposit in it; the greater the deposit, the greater the love." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-love-in-anothers-soul-whatever-of-ourselves-we-110794/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We love in another's soul whatever of ourselves we can deposit in it; the greater the deposit, the greater the love." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-love-in-anothers-soul-whatever-of-ourselves-we-110794/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.








