"We love those who know the worst of us and don't turn their faces away"
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The subtext turns on knowledge. “Those who know” implies exposure, time, proximity. Love here isn’t sparked by mystery but tested by disclosure. That’s a reversal of the romantic script where concealment keeps desire alive. Percy suggests the deeper risk: being fully seen and found ordinary, or worse, repellent. The reward isn’t admiration; it’s non-abandonment.
“Don’t turn their faces away” is doing heavy work. It’s not merely “stay” but “stay looking,” a visceral image of shame and the dread of moral disgust. Turning away is what polite society does when confronted with the unmarketable human. Percy frames love as an act of attention under pressure: the refusal to flinch.
In Percy’s mid-century South, amid rising consumer optimism and the loneliness of suburban life, this reads like an antidote to the era’s bright surfaces. It’s also a criterion: the people we “love” most are often the ones who give us the rarest gift in a status-obsessed culture, the permission to stop acting.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Percy, Walker. (2026, January 15). We love those who know the worst of us and don't turn their faces away. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-love-those-who-know-the-worst-of-us-and-dont-113940/
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Percy, Walker. "We love those who know the worst of us and don't turn their faces away." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-love-those-who-know-the-worst-of-us-and-dont-113940/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We love those who know the worst of us and don't turn their faces away." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-love-those-who-know-the-worst-of-us-and-dont-113940/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.














