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Daily Inspiration Quote by Mahatma Gandhi

"We may have our private opinions but why should they be a bar to the meeting of hearts?"

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In Gandhi's hands, a gentle question becomes a moral trap: if you insist your private opinions must govern your public relations, you are confessing that your ego outranks your humanity. The line carries the weight of a leader who understood that politics is rarely stalled by a lack of ideas; it is stalled by the refusal to remain in relationship with people who hold different ones. By calling opinions "private", Gandhi quietly demotes them. They are not sacred property to be defended at all costs, but mental possessions that can be held lightly. "Hearts", by contrast, are communal territory - the place where solidarity is made or broken.

The intent is strategic as much as spiritual. Gandhi is not asking people to abandon conviction; he's asking them to stop using conviction as a veto on connection. The phrase "bar to the meeting" matters: it's legalistic, architectural, almost procedural. Opinions become a gate you choose to keep locked. That framing shifts responsibility from abstract disagreement to an actionable decision: will you build a barrier, or open a door?

The subtext points to Gandhi's larger project in a plural, colonized India, where unity had to be engineered across religion, caste, language, and ideology. Independence could not be won by a single purified tribe; it required coalitions sturdy enough to survive disagreement. The sentence reads like a blueprint for nonviolent politics: keep contact, keep dignity, keep the possibility of conversion alive. If hearts can meet, opinions might eventually move; if hearts cannot, opinions harden into identities and conflict becomes self-justifying.

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"We may have our private opinions but why should they be a bar to the meeting of hearts?" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-may-have-our-private-opinions-but-why-should-81831/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Mahatma Gandhi (October 2, 1869 - January 30, 1948) was a Leader from India.

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