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Life & Wisdom Quote by John Lyly

"We might knit that knot with our tongues that we shall never undo with our teeth"

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Lyly’s line is a neat little trap sprung in iambic elegance: speech as handiwork, desire as thread, consequence as a knot you can’t bite through. The genius is the bodily escalation. Tongues are soft, quick, persuasive; teeth are hard, belated, and brutally honest. He stages language as something you “knit” - domestic, patient, almost dainty - then reminds you that the final reckoning is animal. Once words are spoken, you can gnash all you like; the damage is already braided into the world.

The specific intent is cautionary, but not pious. Lyly isn’t warning against speech in general; he’s warning against the seductive kind: vows made in flirtation, promises given to save face, rhetorical flourishes offered for applause. In an Elizabethan culture obsessed with wit, courtly performance, and reputation as currency, the tongue is a social weapon and a social hazard. Lyly, a stylist of euphuism (that ornate, clever prose prized in elite circles), knows exactly how easy it is to win a moment with language and lose a life to it.

The subtext is about irreversibility: the fantasy that you can talk your way into a situation and later “explain” your way out. Teeth can only tear; they can’t unweave. Under the polish, it’s a bleak insight into power and consent: words bind other people too. You don’t just trap yourself; you create obligations, expectations, and injuries that outlast your intent. In a world of oaths, patronage, and public honor, one careless sentence can become a contract.

Quote Details

TopicMarriage
SourceEuphues and His England (1580). (Also echoed in Mother Bombie in a related form.)
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Lyly, John. (2026, January 15). We might knit that knot with our tongues that we shall never undo with our teeth. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-might-knit-that-knot-with-our-tongues-that-we-56595/

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Lyly, John. "We might knit that knot with our tongues that we shall never undo with our teeth." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-might-knit-that-knot-with-our-tongues-that-we-56595/.

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"We might knit that knot with our tongues that we shall never undo with our teeth." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-might-knit-that-knot-with-our-tongues-that-we-56595/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.

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John Lyly

John Lyly (1554 AC - November 30, 1606) was a Writer from England.

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