"We must declare ourselves, become known; allow the world to discover this subterranean life of ours which connects kings and farm boys, artists and clerks. Let them see that the important thing is not the object of love, but the emotion itself"
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The sly move is how he shifts the argument away from morality and toward recognition. By insisting “the important thing is not the object of love, but the emotion itself,” Vidal rejects the era’s obsession with the “right” target - the gendered, policed object - and relocates value in the felt experience. That reframing dodges the trap of pleading for tolerance on straight society’s terms (“We love like you do”). Instead, he universalizes the mechanism while keeping the disruptive implication: if emotion is the point, then the gatekeepers’ categories are administrative, not natural.
Context matters. Vidal wrote in a 20th-century America where being “known” could cost you work, safety, family, citizenship in the cultural sense. The quote carries his trademark patrician provocation: treat shame as a bureaucratic error, then step into the light and force the world to update its files.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Vidal, Gore. (2026, January 17). We must declare ourselves, become known; allow the world to discover this subterranean life of ours which connects kings and farm boys, artists and clerks. Let them see that the important thing is not the object of love, but the emotion itself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-must-declare-ourselves-become-known-allow-the-66484/
Chicago Style
Vidal, Gore. "We must declare ourselves, become known; allow the world to discover this subterranean life of ours which connects kings and farm boys, artists and clerks. Let them see that the important thing is not the object of love, but the emotion itself." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-must-declare-ourselves-become-known-allow-the-66484/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We must declare ourselves, become known; allow the world to discover this subterranean life of ours which connects kings and farm boys, artists and clerks. Let them see that the important thing is not the object of love, but the emotion itself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-must-declare-ourselves-become-known-allow-the-66484/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.












