"We must have a theme, a goal, a purpose in our lives. If you don't know where you're aiming, you don't have a goal. My goal is to live my life in such a way that when I die, someone can say, she cared"
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Then she swerves. The destination isn’t wealth, status, or even “success” in the entrepreneurial sense; it’s a eulogy line: “she cared.” That pivot is strategic and revealing. Ash borrows the language of legacy to soften the harder edges of a profit-driven enterprise, wrapping capitalism in a maternal ethic. “Cared” functions as both virtue and brand promise: you can pursue goals aggressively and still claim emotional legitimacy.
Context matters: Mary Kay’s business model relied on relationship-based selling, where warmth is labor and empathy is currency. So “she cared” isn’t merely sentimental; it’s a performance standard. The quote sells an identity as much as it offers advice: be purposeful, be directed, and make your ambition socially acceptable by translating it into care.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ash, Mary Kay. (2026, January 17). We must have a theme, a goal, a purpose in our lives. If you don't know where you're aiming, you don't have a goal. My goal is to live my life in such a way that when I die, someone can say, she cared. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-must-have-a-theme-a-goal-a-purpose-in-our-29402/
Chicago Style
Ash, Mary Kay. "We must have a theme, a goal, a purpose in our lives. If you don't know where you're aiming, you don't have a goal. My goal is to live my life in such a way that when I die, someone can say, she cared." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-must-have-a-theme-a-goal-a-purpose-in-our-29402/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We must have a theme, a goal, a purpose in our lives. If you don't know where you're aiming, you don't have a goal. My goal is to live my life in such a way that when I die, someone can say, she cared." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-must-have-a-theme-a-goal-a-purpose-in-our-29402/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.






