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Marriage Quote by Joseph Ratzinger

"We must have great respect for these people who also suffer and who want to find their own way of correct living. On the other hand, to create a legal form of a kind of homosexual marriage, in reality, does not help these people"

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Ratzinger’s line performs a careful two-step that reads pastoral on the surface and disciplinary underneath. The opening clause - “great respect,” “these people,” “also suffer” - frames gay people primarily through affliction and moral searching, not identity or civic equality. “These people” keeps a polite distance; “also” quietly places them in a category of human woundedness that the Church can acknowledge without affirming the relationships in question. It’s empathy as boundary-setting.

Then comes the pivot: “On the other hand.” The phrase is doing more work than the argument that follows. It signals that respect is not permission, and that compassion can coexist with refusal. “To create a legal form” narrows the debate to bureaucratic engineering, not dignity or rights. The phrase “a kind of homosexual marriage” further downgrades the institution: not marriage, but an imitation, a legal facsimile. He’s denying moral equivalence in the grammar itself.

The clincher - “in reality, does not help these people” - is classic Ratzinger: a claim to realism that turns a political question into a therapeutic one. If legal recognition is rebranded as unhelpful, even harmful, opposition becomes an act of care rather than power. Context matters: as prefect of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith and later pope, Ratzinger was shoring up a Catholic framework threatened by rapidly liberalizing European law and culture. The intent isn’t simply to reject same-sex marriage; it’s to preserve the Church’s authority to define what counts as “correct living,” while appearing humane to a modern audience increasingly skeptical of that authority.

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Later attribution: Catholicism and Liberal Democracy (James Martin Carr, 2022) modern compilationISBN: 9780813235929 · ID: buqxEAAAQBAJ
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Ratzinger, Joseph. (2026, March 26). We must have great respect for these people who also suffer and who want to find their own way of correct living. On the other hand, to create a legal form of a kind of homosexual marriage, in reality, does not help these people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-must-have-great-respect-for-these-people-who-98776/

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Ratzinger, Joseph. "We must have great respect for these people who also suffer and who want to find their own way of correct living. On the other hand, to create a legal form of a kind of homosexual marriage, in reality, does not help these people." FixQuotes. March 26, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-must-have-great-respect-for-these-people-who-98776/.

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"We must have great respect for these people who also suffer and who want to find their own way of correct living. On the other hand, to create a legal form of a kind of homosexual marriage, in reality, does not help these people." FixQuotes, 26 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-must-have-great-respect-for-these-people-who-98776/. Accessed 2 Apr. 2026.

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Joseph Ratzinger (April 16, 1927 - December 31, 2022) was a Clergyman from Germany.

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