"We must overcome the notion that we must be regular... It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary and leads you to the mediocre"
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The phrasing is sneaky-smart. "We must overcome the notion that we must be regular" frames conformity as an inherited idea, not a natural law. Hagen isn’t blaming individual timidity as much as the culture that trains artists into risk management. The verb "robs" sharpens the stakes: mediocrity isn’t a neutral outcome, it’s a theft of possibility. Extraordinary work, in her worldview, isn’t a personality trait; it’s what becomes available when you stop treating normalcy as the price of belonging.
Context matters: Hagen’s career sits in the mid-century American theatre ecosystem where method-influenced truth-telling was colliding with commercial taste, typecasting, and the industrial logic of Broadway and, later, television. Her subtext to actors is blunt: stop performing "acceptable". The more you chase "regular", the more you sand off the specific details that make a character feel lived-in. Mediocre isn’t a failure of talent; it’s the predictable outcome of choosing safety as an aesthetic.
Quote Details
| Topic | Motivational |
|---|---|
| Source | Evidence: We must overcome the notion that we must be regular. (“Be like one of us.” “Don’t put on airs.” “Don’t get so fancy.”) It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary and leads you to the mediocre. (Chapter 2 ("Identity"), p. 31). This wording matches the commonly-circulated quote (often with ellipses). In the book it appears in Chapter 2, “Identity,” on page 31 (as paginated in the widely-circulated reprint/PDF that states the work was first published in 1973). Note that many quote sites omit Hagen’s parenthetical examples and/or change “leads you to the mediocre” to “leads to mediocrity,” but the primary-source text above is the original phrasing as printed in the book. Other candidates (1) Stop Making Excuses and Start Living With Energy (Alyssa Abbey, 2011) compilation96.0% ... We must overcome the notion that we must be regular ... it robs you of the chance to be extraordinary and leads y... |
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Hagen, Uta. "We must overcome the notion that we must be regular... It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary and leads you to the mediocre." FixQuotes. February 22, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-must-overcome-the-notion-that-we-must-be-106049/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We must overcome the notion that we must be regular... It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary and leads you to the mediocre." FixQuotes, 22 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-must-overcome-the-notion-that-we-must-be-106049/. Accessed 2 Apr. 2026.









