"We need role models who are going to break the mold"
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Carly Simon’s line lands like a polite sentence with a sharp edge: don’t just admire people who fit the template; demand people who crack it. Coming from a musician whose career was built on intimate candor and a refusal to stay safely “likable,” the quote reads less like motivational wallpaper and more like a critique of how celebrity culture sells us aspiration. Role models are supposed to be reassuring - proof that success is replicable if you follow the steps. Simon wants the opposite: figures whose value is precisely that they make the steps look suspicious.
The subtext is about power, not personality. “Role model” is often code for “approved example,” a social permission slip that keeps the boundaries intact: be ambitious, but not disruptive; be expressive, but not inconvenient. “Break the mold” calls out that arrangement. It’s a push for models of disobedience - not chaos for its own sake, but people who expand the range of what’s allowed, especially for women in public life who are still policed for tone, aging, desire, and anger.
Context matters here: pop music has long been an arena where rebellion is monetized and sanitized. Simon’s generation watched counterculture become branding; later generations watched “authenticity” become a marketing strategy. Her intent, then, is a cultural quality check: if your hero is perfectly packaged, they may be teaching you compliance. The best role models don’t just succeed; they change the terms of success.
The subtext is about power, not personality. “Role model” is often code for “approved example,” a social permission slip that keeps the boundaries intact: be ambitious, but not disruptive; be expressive, but not inconvenient. “Break the mold” calls out that arrangement. It’s a push for models of disobedience - not chaos for its own sake, but people who expand the range of what’s allowed, especially for women in public life who are still policed for tone, aging, desire, and anger.
Context matters here: pop music has long been an arena where rebellion is monetized and sanitized. Simon’s generation watched counterculture become branding; later generations watched “authenticity” become a marketing strategy. Her intent, then, is a cultural quality check: if your hero is perfectly packaged, they may be teaching you compliance. The best role models don’t just succeed; they change the terms of success.
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