"We need to hear the excuses men make to themselves for their worthlessness"
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The loaded word is “worthlessness.” Fuller isn’t calling men inherently worthless; she’s naming the moral emptiness that appears when authority detaches from responsibility. In that framing, the “excuses” matter because they reveal the bargain at the center of patriarchy: competence is optional when status is guaranteed. What sounds like a private confession is actually a public script. Listen closely and you hear the era’s greatest hits: women are fragile, reform is impractical, ambition is unfeminine, the market is natural, the household is destiny. Each alibi turns a choice into fate.
Context sharpens the blade. Fuller wrote in the ferment of American Transcendentalism and antebellum reform, when lofty ideals about self-reliance and the soul often coexisted with blunt exclusions of women from education, work, and political voice. Her move is to expose the hypocrisy inside that idealism: if you truly believe in human perfectibility, stop hiding behind narratives that keep you small and keep others smaller.
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Fuller, Margaret. (2026, January 17). We need to hear the excuses men make to themselves for their worthlessness. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-need-to-hear-the-excuses-men-make-to-82095/
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Fuller, Margaret. "We need to hear the excuses men make to themselves for their worthlessness." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-need-to-hear-the-excuses-men-make-to-82095/.
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"We need to hear the excuses men make to themselves for their worthlessness." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-need-to-hear-the-excuses-men-make-to-82095/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.













