"We need to hear the excuses men make to themselves for their worthlessness"
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Margaret Fuller, a leading voice of American transcendentalism and early feminism, trained her critical eye on the moral habits that prop up unequal power. When she urges that we hear the excuses men make to themselves for their worthlessness, she is not dismissing men as inherently without value; she is indicting the evasions that keep them from living up to their professed ideals. Fuller’s era teemed with lofty rhetoric about virtue, citizenship, and chivalry, while legal and social structures confined women and indulged male prerogative. The dissonance between ideal and practice required a steady stream of private rationalizations. Fuller wants those rationalizations brought into the open.
Hearing the excuses is a method, not an end. It exposes the inner narratives by which privilege defends itself: appeals to nature, romanticized protection that masks control, claims of female delicacy that justify exclusion, and pleas of helpless impulse that absolve responsibility. Once voiced, these myths become visible as choices rather than inevitabilities. Fuller trusted conversation as a moral instrument; her famous Boston Conversations cultivated exactly this kind of frank inquiry, stripping away flattery and self-deception so that genuine self-culture could begin.
The word worthlessness targets failure of character. Men who rely on excuse-making abandon the self-reliance and integrity they celebrate. They ask women to shoulder the burden of purity while they reserve for themselves the license of appetite, then explain the discrepancy as tradition, nature, or necessity. Fuller’s remedy is neither scorn nor sentimental pardon but accountability rooted in understanding: listen, name the pretexts, and thereby leave fewer places for them to hide.
The insight remains contemporary. Structural injustice persists through stories people tell themselves to feel innocent while benefiting from it. Change often begins when those stories are spoken aloud, heard without acquiescence, and measured against the standards their speakers already claim to honor.
Hearing the excuses is a method, not an end. It exposes the inner narratives by which privilege defends itself: appeals to nature, romanticized protection that masks control, claims of female delicacy that justify exclusion, and pleas of helpless impulse that absolve responsibility. Once voiced, these myths become visible as choices rather than inevitabilities. Fuller trusted conversation as a moral instrument; her famous Boston Conversations cultivated exactly this kind of frank inquiry, stripping away flattery and self-deception so that genuine self-culture could begin.
The word worthlessness targets failure of character. Men who rely on excuse-making abandon the self-reliance and integrity they celebrate. They ask women to shoulder the burden of purity while they reserve for themselves the license of appetite, then explain the discrepancy as tradition, nature, or necessity. Fuller’s remedy is neither scorn nor sentimental pardon but accountability rooted in understanding: listen, name the pretexts, and thereby leave fewer places for them to hide.
The insight remains contemporary. Structural injustice persists through stories people tell themselves to feel innocent while benefiting from it. Change often begins when those stories are spoken aloud, heard without acquiescence, and measured against the standards their speakers already claim to honor.
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