"We need to listen to our experiences"
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Listening is usually framed as something we do for other people. Darren L. Johnson flips it inward, arguing that experience itself is a kind of speaker: it delivers information, patterns, warnings, and invitations - if we stop treating life as noise and start treating it as data with a pulse.
The intent is deceptively practical. "We need" makes it collective and urgent, less self-help slogan than communal directive: pay attention, or you will repeat yourself. The line suggests a critique of how modern life encourages constant interpretation from the outside in - expert takes, algorithmic prompts, hot takes that tell you what you feel before you feel it. Johnson's imperative pushes back: your lived moments are already a syllabus.
The subtext is also an argument about agency. To "listen to our experiences" implies experiences are not just things that happen to us; they are messages we can decode. That reframes pain, failure, and surprise as feedback rather than verdict. It doesn't romanticize suffering, but it refuses the cultural habit of speed-running past discomfort to get back to productivity. Listening takes time. It also takes humility, because experiences often contradict the story we want to tell about ourselves.
Contextually, the quote sits comfortably in contemporary wellness and reflective leadership culture, but it has bite when read as an anti-performative stance: stop curating your life long enough to hear it. The sentence works because it's plain, almost blunt. No metaphor, no flourish - just a quiet demand that you become legible to yourself.
The intent is deceptively practical. "We need" makes it collective and urgent, less self-help slogan than communal directive: pay attention, or you will repeat yourself. The line suggests a critique of how modern life encourages constant interpretation from the outside in - expert takes, algorithmic prompts, hot takes that tell you what you feel before you feel it. Johnson's imperative pushes back: your lived moments are already a syllabus.
The subtext is also an argument about agency. To "listen to our experiences" implies experiences are not just things that happen to us; they are messages we can decode. That reframes pain, failure, and surprise as feedback rather than verdict. It doesn't romanticize suffering, but it refuses the cultural habit of speed-running past discomfort to get back to productivity. Listening takes time. It also takes humility, because experiences often contradict the story we want to tell about ourselves.
Contextually, the quote sits comfortably in contemporary wellness and reflective leadership culture, but it has bite when read as an anti-performative stance: stop curating your life long enough to hear it. The sentence works because it's plain, almost blunt. No metaphor, no flourish - just a quiet demand that you become legible to yourself.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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