"We only get together when there's a good reason. Like, last summer, we didn't really intend to go out, but we thought the B-52's tour was a good opportunity"
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The specific example she chooses matters. The B-52’s aren’t just any tour; they’re a kind of cousin in the American pop underground-to-mainstream pipeline, a band whose weirdness became party music without losing its edge. Calling their tour “a good opportunity” signals camaraderie and taste as much as scheduling. It’s less “we’re back” than “this moment makes sense,” a calibrated yes rather than a desperate one.
The subtext is boundary-setting. “Didn’t really intend to go out” acknowledges how exhausting and emotionally complicated band dynamics can be, especially for groups with long histories, rotating lineups, and the baggage of public narratives. Yet she doesn’t dramatize it. She normalizes restraint, implying that scarcity is part of the brand’s integrity. In an era when reunion tours can feel like content drops, Valentine makes a case for something rarer: showing up only when the context is worthy, and letting the rest stay legend.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Valentine, Kathy. (2026, January 15). We only get together when there's a good reason. Like, last summer, we didn't really intend to go out, but we thought the B-52's tour was a good opportunity. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-only-get-together-when-theres-a-good-reason-153686/
Chicago Style
Valentine, Kathy. "We only get together when there's a good reason. Like, last summer, we didn't really intend to go out, but we thought the B-52's tour was a good opportunity." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-only-get-together-when-theres-a-good-reason-153686/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We only get together when there's a good reason. Like, last summer, we didn't really intend to go out, but we thought the B-52's tour was a good opportunity." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-only-get-together-when-theres-a-good-reason-153686/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



