"We pity in others only the those evils which we ourselves have experienced"
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The subtext is political as much as psychological. In an 18th-century Europe obsessed with manners, rank, and the performance of virtue, Rousseau keeps insisting that “natural” moral feeling is real but fragile, easily warped by society’s incentives. Pity becomes a diagnostic: not “How good are you?” but “How similar are you to the person suffering?” That’s an uncomfortable question for any culture that treats charity as proof of character, and it anticipates modern debates about which stories get public attention. Some harms travel well across class lines; others remain illegible unless you’ve been there.
The intent isn’t to abolish compassion; it’s to show its limits so it can be widened. Rousseau’s larger project in works like Discourse on Inequality and Emile is to ask how environments shape what we feel. If pity is experiential, then a just society isn’t one that merely preaches sympathy; it’s one that builds conditions where people can actually recognize each other’s vulnerabilities before cruelty hardens into habit.
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