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"We pity in others only the those evils which we ourselves have experienced"

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Pity, Rousseau suggests, is less a moral achievement than a mirror trick. We like to imagine compassion as an act of open-handed generosity, but he drags it back to the body: you feel for someone else only when their pain lands on a bruise you already carry. The line is built to puncture self-flattery. It doesn’t deny that people can be kind; it implies that what we call empathy often has a narrow passport, stamped by personal history. If you haven’t lived it, you’re more likely to judge it, aestheticize it, or ignore it.

The subtext is political as much as psychological. In an 18th-century Europe obsessed with manners, rank, and the performance of virtue, Rousseau keeps insisting that “natural” moral feeling is real but fragile, easily warped by society’s incentives. Pity becomes a diagnostic: not “How good are you?” but “How similar are you to the person suffering?” That’s an uncomfortable question for any culture that treats charity as proof of character, and it anticipates modern debates about which stories get public attention. Some harms travel well across class lines; others remain illegible unless you’ve been there.

The intent isn’t to abolish compassion; it’s to show its limits so it can be widened. Rousseau’s larger project in works like Discourse on Inequality and Emile is to ask how environments shape what we feel. If pity is experiential, then a just society isn’t one that merely preaches sympathy; it’s one that builds conditions where people can actually recognize each other’s vulnerabilities before cruelty hardens into habit.

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Jean-Jacques Rousseau

Jean-Jacques Rousseau (June 28, 1712 - July 2, 1778) was a Philosopher from France.

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