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Love & Passion Quote by Robin Gibb

"We said we'd fly the flag without him and carry on. I didn't give him a kiss because I still hadn't accepted what was happening. I was hoping that some miracle was going to happen. Of course, it didn't. I wish I had kissed him now"

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Grief rarely arrives as a clean curtain drop; it comes as stage fog, making even the simplest gestures feel unreal. Robin Gibb frames that unreality with the plainest possible detail: not a grand goodbye, just a kiss that never happened. The line lands because it refuses the expected rock-star vocabulary of legend and instead lingers on the domestic, almost embarrassing truth of denial: you can love someone deeply and still behave like tomorrow is guaranteed.

"Fly the flag without him and carry on" is the performer talking, the professional instinct kicking in. It hints at the machinery around loss - shows, rituals, public resilience - that demands you keep moving even when the mind hasn't caught up. In that sense, the flag is both tribute and defense mechanism: a symbol you can hold when you can't yet hold the fact itself.

The subtext is a brutal time-loop: the moment he didn't kiss him keeps replaying because it represents the last point where agency was possible. "I was hoping that some miracle was going to happen" is not naive; it's human bargaining, the refusal to seal reality with a final act. Then the blunt "Of course, it didn't" punctures the fantasy with a flatness that feels like shock setting into permanence.

The intent isn't to dramatize regret, but to warn how ordinary it is. The sentence "I wish I had kissed him now" turns a private lapse into a cultural nerve: the ways masculinity, performance, and denial can conspire to make tenderness feel postponable - until it's not.

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Gibb, Robin. (2026, January 16). We said we'd fly the flag without him and carry on. I didn't give him a kiss because I still hadn't accepted what was happening. I was hoping that some miracle was going to happen. Of course, it didn't. I wish I had kissed him now. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-said-wed-fly-the-flag-without-him-and-carry-on-118031/

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Gibb, Robin. "We said we'd fly the flag without him and carry on. I didn't give him a kiss because I still hadn't accepted what was happening. I was hoping that some miracle was going to happen. Of course, it didn't. I wish I had kissed him now." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-said-wed-fly-the-flag-without-him-and-carry-on-118031/.

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"We said we'd fly the flag without him and carry on. I didn't give him a kiss because I still hadn't accepted what was happening. I was hoping that some miracle was going to happen. Of course, it didn't. I wish I had kissed him now." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-said-wed-fly-the-flag-without-him-and-carry-on-118031/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Robin Gibb (born December 22, 1949) is a Musician from England.

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