"We said we'd fly the flag without him and carry on. I didn't give him a kiss because I still hadn't accepted what was happening. I was hoping that some miracle was going to happen. Of course, it didn't. I wish I had kissed him now"
About this Quote
"Fly the flag without him and carry on" is the performer talking, the professional instinct kicking in. It hints at the machinery around loss - shows, rituals, public resilience - that demands you keep moving even when the mind hasn't caught up. In that sense, the flag is both tribute and defense mechanism: a symbol you can hold when you can't yet hold the fact itself.
The subtext is a brutal time-loop: the moment he didn't kiss him keeps replaying because it represents the last point where agency was possible. "I was hoping that some miracle was going to happen" is not naive; it's human bargaining, the refusal to seal reality with a final act. Then the blunt "Of course, it didn't" punctures the fantasy with a flatness that feels like shock setting into permanence.
The intent isn't to dramatize regret, but to warn how ordinary it is. The sentence "I wish I had kissed him now" turns a private lapse into a cultural nerve: the ways masculinity, performance, and denial can conspire to make tenderness feel postponable - until it's not.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gibb, Robin. (2026, January 16). We said we'd fly the flag without him and carry on. I didn't give him a kiss because I still hadn't accepted what was happening. I was hoping that some miracle was going to happen. Of course, it didn't. I wish I had kissed him now. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-said-wed-fly-the-flag-without-him-and-carry-on-118031/
Chicago Style
Gibb, Robin. "We said we'd fly the flag without him and carry on. I didn't give him a kiss because I still hadn't accepted what was happening. I was hoping that some miracle was going to happen. Of course, it didn't. I wish I had kissed him now." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-said-wed-fly-the-flag-without-him-and-carry-on-118031/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We said we'd fly the flag without him and carry on. I didn't give him a kiss because I still hadn't accepted what was happening. I was hoping that some miracle was going to happen. Of course, it didn't. I wish I had kissed him now." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-said-wed-fly-the-flag-without-him-and-carry-on-118031/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





