"We see things as we are, not as they are"
About this Quote
The subtext is especially sharp in the mid-century American context Rosten inhabited: a culture newly fluent in propaganda, mass media, and the idea that personality itself could be engineered. To say "we see things as we are" is to warn that public opinion is never just a response to events; it’s a mirror held up to private anxieties, status fears, and group identity. It also reads like a novelist’s credo. Fiction depends on the notion that two people can witness the same moment and live in different realities, not because truth is meaningless, but because character is destiny.
There’s an ethical edge, too. The quote refuses the comforting escape hatch of "That’s just how it happened". If your version of reality keeps producing the same enemies and the same disappointments, Rosten hints, the investigation should turn inward. Not navel-gazing, but accountability: perception is personal, and therefore corrigible.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: Singer's Typewriter and Mine (Ilan Stavans, 2012) modern compilationISBN: 9780803271463 · ID: mk9hL2uBVhEC
Evidence:
... Rosten prepared another , far inferior lexicon in 1989. In his estimation , Yinglish , also called Ameridish ... We see things as we are , not as they are . " 10 Juan Gelman's dibaxu The poetry of Juan Gelman bears R * O * S * T ... |
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