"We shall listen, not lecture; learn, not threaten. We will enhance our safety by earning the respect of others and showing respect for them. In short, our foreign policy will rest on the traditional American values of restraint and empathy, not on military might"
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The key move is the inversion of strength. “Enhance our safety” normally cues hardware: bases, bombs, readiness. Instead, he ties security to “earning the respect of others,” casting legitimacy as a strategic asset. That’s soft power before the term became a seminar cliché, and it’s also an implicit critique of Cold War reflexes - the idea that intimidation can substitute for persuasion. “Restraint and empathy” reads like a corrective to the swaggering logic of containment when it curdles into interventionism: the belief that American credibility must be continuously demonstrated through force.
“In short” signals a closing argument, but notice the rhetorical shield: “traditional American values.” Sorensen anticipates the predictable attack - that empathy is weakness - and preempts it by calling it tradition. The subtext is political triage: reassure domestic audiences that humility abroad isn’t surrender, while telling allies and adversaries that America can lead without looming. It’s idealism with a strategist’s edge, packaged as national character.
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| Topic | Peace |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sorensen, Theodore C. (2026, January 17). We shall listen, not lecture; learn, not threaten. We will enhance our safety by earning the respect of others and showing respect for them. In short, our foreign policy will rest on the traditional American values of restraint and empathy, not on military might. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-shall-listen-not-lecture-learn-not-threaten-we-65262/
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Sorensen, Theodore C. "We shall listen, not lecture; learn, not threaten. We will enhance our safety by earning the respect of others and showing respect for them. In short, our foreign policy will rest on the traditional American values of restraint and empathy, not on military might." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-shall-listen-not-lecture-learn-not-threaten-we-65262/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We shall listen, not lecture; learn, not threaten. We will enhance our safety by earning the respect of others and showing respect for them. In short, our foreign policy will rest on the traditional American values of restraint and empathy, not on military might." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-shall-listen-not-lecture-learn-not-threaten-we-65262/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.






