"We should meet abuse by forbearance. Human nature is so constituted that if we take absolutely no notice of anger or abuse, the person indulging in it will soon weary of it and stop"
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Gandhi frames restraint as something tougher than retaliation: a deliberate tactic that turns an aggressor’s energy into dead weight. The line reads almost serene, but it’s built like a pressure system. “Meet abuse by forbearance” isn’t a plea for politeness; it’s a strategy for denying violence its favorite fuel: attention, escalation, and the moral excuse of “they started it.” By insisting that anger “will soon weary,” Gandhi portrays rage as theatrically dependent, less an unstoppable force than a performance that collapses without an audience.
The subtext is political discipline. Forbearance isn’t passive in Gandhi’s world; it’s coordinated refusal. Not reacting is a way of controlling the narrative in public space, where legitimacy is everything. If your movement doesn’t strike back, the oppressor has to carry the whole spectacle of cruelty alone, in full view. That loneliness is the point. The abuser becomes visibly excessive, the nonviolent actor visibly credible. This is how moral leverage is manufactured.
Context matters because Gandhi is speaking from a century of imperial power that justified itself by portraying resistance as barbarism. Nonviolent endurance flips the script: the state’s force looks less like order and more like panic. At the same time, the quote smuggles in a hard demand: emotional self-management as political labor. It asks followers to swallow humiliation in the short term to win authority in the long term, betting that public conscience - and institutional legitimacy - are more brittle than they appear.
The subtext is political discipline. Forbearance isn’t passive in Gandhi’s world; it’s coordinated refusal. Not reacting is a way of controlling the narrative in public space, where legitimacy is everything. If your movement doesn’t strike back, the oppressor has to carry the whole spectacle of cruelty alone, in full view. That loneliness is the point. The abuser becomes visibly excessive, the nonviolent actor visibly credible. This is how moral leverage is manufactured.
Context matters because Gandhi is speaking from a century of imperial power that justified itself by portraying resistance as barbarism. Nonviolent endurance flips the script: the state’s force looks less like order and more like panic. At the same time, the quote smuggles in a hard demand: emotional self-management as political labor. It asks followers to swallow humiliation in the short term to win authority in the long term, betting that public conscience - and institutional legitimacy - are more brittle than they appear.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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