"We spend so much time together, because that's how we like it. I never used to go on girl's nights out, even at school. And Paul has never liked going out for a night with the boys, either"
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The subtext is more interesting than the sentiment. Linda isn't just saying she enjoys Paul; she's rejecting a gendered social economy built on performance. "Girl's nights" and "the boys" aren't neutral categories; they're rituals where femininity and masculinity get rehearsed and policed. By confessing she "never used to go" even at school, she positions this not as post-Beatles codependency but as temperament: an enduring disinterest in compulsory social scenes and their low-grade competitive bonding.
Context matters because the McCartneys were a brand of intimacy in an era that rewarded spectacle and suspicion. Rock stardom ran on excess, touring, and liaisons; the wife was often a footnote or a warning label. Linda flips that narrative. The couple's closeness becomes a deliberate counter-myth to the romanticized solitude of male genius and the idea that women are meant to orbit rather than co-author a life. It's a small statement with a big cultural edge: opting out, together, and calling it freedom.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McCartney, Linda. (2026, January 16). We spend so much time together, because that's how we like it. I never used to go on girl's nights out, even at school. And Paul has never liked going out for a night with the boys, either. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-spend-so-much-time-together-because-thats-how-114035/
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McCartney, Linda. "We spend so much time together, because that's how we like it. I never used to go on girl's nights out, even at school. And Paul has never liked going out for a night with the boys, either." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-spend-so-much-time-together-because-thats-how-114035/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We spend so much time together, because that's how we like it. I never used to go on girl's nights out, even at school. And Paul has never liked going out for a night with the boys, either." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-spend-so-much-time-together-because-thats-how-114035/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


