"We talked to the referees before the game; there's always new situations to adjust, for the refs and for us as well. Even on the ice, it's good for players to talk and interact with the referee"
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The subtext is relationship management. Referees aren’t machines dispensing justice; they’re people balancing flow, safety, and credibility in front of thousands of partisans and a bench that will test every boundary. When Bondra says “there’s always new situations to adjust,” he’s reframing officiating from authoritarian decree to shared problem-solving. That’s savvy: it replaces “us vs. them” with “we’re all trying to keep this game coherent.” It also protects a player’s future leverage. The athlete who can talk calmly in chaos earns a longer leash than the one who only communicates through outrage.
“Even on the ice” matters because it rejects the performative code that equates chirping with competitiveness. Bondra is pitching communication as a competitive tool: clarify what’s being called, learn what’s being watched, and reduce the random swing of penalties that can decide a tight game. In a league where one power play can flip a series, the real edge isn’t just speed or shot placement. It’s controlling the gray areas before they control you.
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Bondra, Peter. (2026, January 16). We talked to the referees before the game; there's always new situations to adjust, for the refs and for us as well. Even on the ice, it's good for players to talk and interact with the referee. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-talked-to-the-referees-before-the-game-theres-131346/
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Bondra, Peter. "We talked to the referees before the game; there's always new situations to adjust, for the refs and for us as well. Even on the ice, it's good for players to talk and interact with the referee." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-talked-to-the-referees-before-the-game-theres-131346/.
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"We talked to the referees before the game; there's always new situations to adjust, for the refs and for us as well. Even on the ice, it's good for players to talk and interact with the referee." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-talked-to-the-referees-before-the-game-theres-131346/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.



