"We thought we were running away from the grownups, and now we are the grownups"
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Atwood's intent isn't nostalgia; it's accountability. The subtext is that adulthood isn't granted by age so much as by inheritance: you wake up inside the systems you once mocked, managing the compromises you swore you'd never make. The phrase "running away" carries a child's logic - motion as freedom - while "we are" lands like a verdict. It's not "we've become" (a gentle evolution) but "we are" (an identity you can't litigate).
Context matters because Atwood has spent a career watching power reproduce itself: in households, in governments, in gender roles, in environmental negligence. Read against late-20th-century idealism curdling into institutional reality, the quote becomes an indictment of a generation's handoff moment. The grownups weren't defeated; they were absorbed. The line works because it refuses the comfort of a villain. The only twist is that the authority you were fleeing has your face now.
Quote Details
| Topic | Nostalgia |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Atwood, Margaret. (n.d.). We thought we were running away from the grownups, and now we are the grownups. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-thought-we-were-running-away-from-the-grownups-119966/
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Atwood, Margaret. "We thought we were running away from the grownups, and now we are the grownups." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-thought-we-were-running-away-from-the-grownups-119966/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We thought we were running away from the grownups, and now we are the grownups." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-thought-we-were-running-away-from-the-grownups-119966/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.



