"We train in the mornings, and then I go home and rest or sleep, and usually I go for a meal with Abel of a night, as we're the two with no family here, so we tend to hang around together"
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The intent feels practical, even offhand, which is why it lands. By listing the day in plain increments (train, rest, sleep, meal), Gough frames companionship as maintenance, something you do the way you hydrate or stretch. That matter-of-factness is the subtext: loneliness doesn’t arrive as melodrama; it shows up as a calendar problem. Abel becomes less a friend by sentiment than a structural solution to being unmoored. Two people without a domestic anchor start orbiting each other because the alternative is to drift.
Contextually, it also sketches a culture where work is physical and communal, but private life is absent or postponed. The mornings belong to the institution (training), the afternoons to survival (rest), the evenings to a substitute family formed out of proximity and need. It’s a reminder that “hanging around together” is often how solidarity begins: not through grand ideals, but through the simple decision not to eat alone.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gough, Richard. (2026, January 15). We train in the mornings, and then I go home and rest or sleep, and usually I go for a meal with Abel of a night, as we're the two with no family here, so we tend to hang around together. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-train-in-the-mornings-and-then-i-go-home-and-153188/
Chicago Style
Gough, Richard. "We train in the mornings, and then I go home and rest or sleep, and usually I go for a meal with Abel of a night, as we're the two with no family here, so we tend to hang around together." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-train-in-the-mornings-and-then-i-go-home-and-153188/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We train in the mornings, and then I go home and rest or sleep, and usually I go for a meal with Abel of a night, as we're the two with no family here, so we tend to hang around together." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-train-in-the-mornings-and-then-i-go-home-and-153188/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







