"We tried - we tried for a year, and we tried different methods and different - and I had in vitro and it didn't work. It didn't stick. It didn't - didn't produce a baby at all"
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The sentence keeps breaking apart, as if language itself can’t keep up with the experience. “Different methods and different -” trails off, suggesting the unglamorous sprawl of interventions (appointments, hormones, procedures) that don’t fit neatly into a sound bite. Then she names “in vitro” in plain speech, not as a celebrity flex but as a clinical fact, and the bluntness lands: technology is not a guarantee; it’s an expensive gamble with a body as the casino.
“Didn’t stick” is telling: an everyday phrase that turns an embryo into something like tape or glue, underscoring how the process forces people to talk about potential life in mechanical terms just to survive it emotionally. The final line - “didn’t produce a baby at all” - is almost bureaucratic in its flatness, a refusal to euphemize grief. In context, it reads like a corrective to a media culture that prefers women’s reproductive stories to be either triumphant or secret. Tiegs makes the failure speak, and by doing so, makes the silence around it harder to maintain.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tiegs, Cheryl. (n.d.). We tried - we tried for a year, and we tried different methods and different - and I had in vitro and it didn't work. It didn't stick. It didn't - didn't produce a baby at all. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-tried-we-tried-for-a-year-and-we-tried-111465/
Chicago Style
Tiegs, Cheryl. "We tried - we tried for a year, and we tried different methods and different - and I had in vitro and it didn't work. It didn't stick. It didn't - didn't produce a baby at all." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-tried-we-tried-for-a-year-and-we-tried-111465/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We tried - we tried for a year, and we tried different methods and different - and I had in vitro and it didn't work. It didn't stick. It didn't - didn't produce a baby at all." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-tried-we-tried-for-a-year-and-we-tried-111465/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.






