"We wanted to be achievers, but being an achiever didn't mean that you stopped being a woman"
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The phrasing is doing quiet rhetorical work. "We wanted" signals a cohort, not a lone exception; she’s speaking for a generation of women who didn’t just break barriers but had to narrate their right to exist on the other side of them. The second clause is the real strike: it implies that someone, somewhere, insisted that winning required a kind of gender erasure. Fleming rejects that bargain and exposes the absurdity of it.
The context matters because figure skating sits at an uneasy intersection of athleticism and performance, a sport where femininity is both marketed and policed. Fleming became a national icon in 1968, when women’s liberation was cresting but mainstream expectations still demanded grace, restraint, and likability. Her quote reads like a distillation of that moment: a refusal to let success be treated as a costume change into masculinity, or femininity as a ceiling on seriousness. It’s defiant, but it’s also strategically legible to the mainstream, which is exactly why it lands.
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| Topic | Equality |
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Fleming, Peggy. (2026, January 16). We wanted to be achievers, but being an achiever didn't mean that you stopped being a woman. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-wanted-to-be-achievers-but-being-an-achiever-93827/
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Fleming, Peggy. "We wanted to be achievers, but being an achiever didn't mean that you stopped being a woman." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-wanted-to-be-achievers-but-being-an-achiever-93827/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"We wanted to be achievers, but being an achiever didn't mean that you stopped being a woman." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/we-wanted-to-be-achievers-but-being-an-achiever-93827/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.









